One Month Old Today

Ian is one month old today! Given the special anniversary, I decided to give him a bath. Isn't he cute all wrapped up in his towel?

I also decided to take the "chair photo" where you place your baby next to an object of known size. Here is Ian looking very serious next to the bunny that his cousin gave to him.

And Ian's grandpa and great-grandmother came over for a visit too and took some photos. I really like this one.

10 pounds, 12 ounces and 22.25 inches at 4 weeks!

I took Ian to the pediatrician yesterday for his 4-week checkup. The boy weighed 10 pounds, 12 ounces! In 2 weeks, he gained 26 ounces (up from 9 pounds, 2 ounces) and he grew 1.25 inches (now 22.25 inches, up from 21 inches). All of his measurements (including head circumference) put him at the 75th percentile (up from the 50th percentile). I guess I grow 'em big! He thrived in my uterus and now he is thriving on my breast milk. It sure feels good! Otherwise, the doctor said he was healthy. He received his first Hep B shot and I have to start him on a multi-vitamin to make sure he gets enough Vitamin D (because Vitamin D apparently doesn't pass through the mother's breast milk).

On my way out of the doctor's office, I passed by a conference room and recognized two women from my childbirth education class (Stacie and Jamy). I stopped in and said hello and asked what they were doing there. Apparently, there is a mothers' group every Tuesday morning from 10 am to 12 pm. It was so fortuitous that I ran into them! So I decided to hang out with the group since I was only planning to go home and do laundry anyway. It was a fun 2 hours. And then we all went out to eat lunch in Framingham. It was hysterical when 6 women, all with strollers, walked into the restaurant. I'm sure all the other diners weren't pleased. There was a lot of loud talking, baby screaming/fussing and breastfeeding going on. I loved it! I finally got us home around 3:00 pm and boy, was I tired! It was a great, but long day. I'm definitely going back to the mother's group every Tuesday. It's nice to share stories and ask questions. There is also a nurse at each meeting and so I can weigh Ian each week when I go (since Ian doesn't go back to the doctor until his 2 month visit).

Two things that I learned from the mothers' group: (1) I MUST buy the Baby Trend Snap 'N Go stroller. It will be so much lighter and easier to fold up and put in my trunk and our Chico Key Fit 30 car seat will fit into it. (2) I want to buy a nursing cover. I think it would also be a good idea to pick up some Dr. Brown's bottles. Right now, we have tried bottle feeding three times, just using the Medela bottles that came with the pump and freezer storage kit.

I weighed 145.5 pounds this morning, which means I still have 3 pounds left to lose in order to get back to my pre-pregnancy weight. These last few pounds are definitely lingering and my body doesn't appear to be shedding them quickly. And I have a feeling that even if I lose 3 pounds, I'll still have a belly that I'll need to tighten and tone. My mother-in-law expressed to my husband that she wanted to feel more useful. So I've invited her to come babysit on Friday so that I can head to the JCC and go for a swim. I think this arrangement will make both of us happy. :-)

End of First Week At Home Alone

It's Friday evening and Ian and I are waiting for daddy to get home. We made it to the end of our first solo week together. We had some adventures, including opening up a joint savings account at the bank (Monday), grocery shopping (Tuesday) and renting a safe deposit box (Wednesday). Ian also "participated" in his first Passover Seder on Wednesday night. My in-laws came over with all of the food and necessary dishware and we celebrated the first night of Passover. Since the weather was so beautiful yesterday and today, the daily activity involved a 3 mile walk. Today, I decided to be adventurous and include the big hill in our walk. It was tough to push the stroller up that hill! I was definitely out of breath and sweaty when we reached the top.

On a personal note, it looks like the last 4-5 pounds I gained during pregnancy are not coming off easily, as did all of the other weight. So I'm going to have to work for the last little bit. I can't wait until I feel up to doing some crunches. I want to get this belly back into shape! Right now, although I feel pretty healed, I can still feel the incision and think an ab workout would be overdoing it.

Our First Outing

Today was my first day alone with Ian. Since I came home from the hospital, my parents were here visiting and helping out. They left on Saturday morning, but then my husband was around to help out over the rest of the weekend. Today was the first day that I was alone with my son. I decided that we would go to the bank to open up a joint savings account so that I could deposit the checks that Ian received. I loaded Ian up in the car and off we went. Success! It was so successful that I decided to continue on to CVS and Finagle a Bagel. Once I parked, I had a bit of trouble inserting Ian's car seat into the stroller. This was made a bit more stressful by the fact that it had started to rain. But I finally got a strap out of the way and the handle of the stroller in the right position and click!, in he went. We bought everything we needed at both stores and I was happy to take home a tuna melt for lunch. Once we got home, Ian slept in his car seat for another 30 minutes before he was ready for his own lunch.

Is it sad that I'm terribly impressed with myself (especially since I managed to eat breakfast, start a load of laundry, pump and feed Ian twice before heading out the door)? I feel as much pride today as I do when successfully negotiating a difficult license for a client. And that says a lot!

3 weeks and 3 pounds to go!

Tomorrow, at 6:11 am, Ian will be 3 weeks old. As of this morning, I weighed 145.5 pounds, which is 3 pounds more than my pre-pregnancy weight. I'm glad the weight came off quickly (and without any effort on my part), but I'm realizing that I will need to work at getting my stomach back into the shape it was in before. Although I'm only 3 pounds heavier than prior to getting pregnant, my stomach is poochy and I really want to tighten it up. Given that I had major abdominal surgery 3 weeks ago, I don't want to push it and so I will most likely wait at least another 2 weeks before doing any abdominal exercises. But I will be signing up for the Stroller Fit class at the JCC (which starts on April 17) and I will try to take walks with Ian as long as the weather permits it. Today, it was beautiful out (albeit a bit windy, which my son did not like!) and we took a 2 mile walk. I had previously only walked 1 mile at a time, but today, I decided to do the neighborhood loop twice instead of just once. It felt really good. I haven't taken any pain medication (600 mg Motrin) in over 36 hours and I don't feel like I need it because of the walk. Go me!

No More Parents, But Successful Bottle Feed!!

My parents left this morning. They had been here for 3 weeks to help out, although for the first 4 days after Ian's birth, I only saw them when they came to visit at the hospital. The last 2 weeks with them were amazing. They did all the shopping and cooking. My mother kept me very well fed, which I needed because I was absolutely starving from the breastfeeding! My father kept himself busy fixing up the basement. He loves his projects! He re-sanded and re-painted the walls, stained the wood shelves and doors and installed the Pergo flooring. I no longer have to cringe when I walk down the steps to the garage. Instead of seeing knotty wood pine walls and cracked and dirty brown/beige floor tiles, I see beautifully painted, light yellow walls and flooring that looks like real wood. I absolutely love it. I was extremely sad to see my parents go. I started crying and made my mom and dad tear up too. Not only will I miss the help that they offered, but I'm going to miss their company. It sure will be lonely here without them (especially when my husband is at work during the weekdays). I am already looking forward to their next visit at the end of May.

In other news, Ian is almost 3 weeks old. Since his birth, he has consistently latched well to my breast and I think that I've clearly established a good (if not overabundant) milk supply. So we decided that today would be the day to try bottle feeding for the first time. Ian's pediatrician warned us not to wait too long and so we made today the day. Daddy used one of the Medela nipples that came with the pumping bottles we bought and Ian took it immediately and like a champ.



He drank 3 ounces and didn't seem to care that (a) he wasn't feeding from a breast and (b) that I was in the room (and taking pictures like a mad woman). Now we just have to figure out how much bottle feeding we should do in order to make sure that Ian takes both breast and bottle easily. If anyone is out there and reading my blog, do you have any thoughts or experience on this?

Unique Moments

There are some things that only happen once and three of those things happened in the last 24 hours:

1. Last night, as I was changing my baby's diaper and putting some Vaseline on his penis, I noticed that he had an erection. I'm sure this will be the first of many.
2. This afternoon, after pulling my baby's urine-soaked onesie over his head, I realized that my baby was crying real tears.
3. This afternoon, the nub of my son's umbilical cord, which had been hanging on by a thread, finally fell off (18 days after birth). And we are now free to bathe him, which we will do tonight, when my husband gets home from work.

I love these milestones!